“Dei.. enna da.. nee lam chennai lernthu vantha nu veliya sollikkatha.. 3 years aayiduchu, innum oru ponna kooda correct pannala?? thu!”.Almost every single person whom i know in college who is not a chennai-vasi have asked this question to me(I represent everyone who are chennai-singles!). What is so special about coming from chennai?? Why do everyone expect that all chennai ppl must be committed?? If u expect to find an answer for this question here, sorry you wont. This blog is about the difficulties that chennai ppl suffer when they are outside chennai(especially in a college/hostel)
#1. Are u comin from chennai?? Do you have a mobile phone?? Are there any girls contacts in that?? Do u get forward messages from them?? YOU ARE DEAD!! Having girls contacts in mobiles is more worse than committing a murder nowadays! Especially when you are in a hostel, and even worse if your friends doesn’t have any contacts(sorry if am offensive!). For them you are committed with every single girl name in your mobile and they imagine that everyone are super figures(:P), you can never convince them that they are not worth to be called like that and they are just friends.There is a difference between friends as girls and girlfriends.Some never understand that.
#2. girls as friends in facebook?? YOUR ARE DEAD AGAIN! There is no need of any chatting or messaging, just if there are any girls’ names in friends list,you are a playboy! Facebook is the best way to be in touch with our friends whom you dont see very often(both boys and girls), Many ppl dont use it for this purpose. The following things are strictly not allowed in facebook account:
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Getting a like/comment from a girl for anything that is there in your profile.
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Commenting/liking a girl’s status/photo or anything that is related to a girl’s profile.
These things can be very very dangerous sometimes and the ways some ppl exaggerate things can make you feel like deactivating your facebook account once and for all.
I do accept that most of the channai ppl are committed, but that doesn’t conclude that everyone must be committed.
So, the next time someone asks this question to you, your answer can be
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“machi, en aalu chennai la irukka da!” if u want to maintain the ‘chennai-gethu’.
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“naan avlo ku lam worth illa da”. if you really are a loser.
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“machi lovengrathu oru sori mathiri…” kind of thathuvam, if u never want that person to ask the same question to you ever again.
Chennai is just another place in tamil nadu and not a place which manufactures lovers.
P.S. I am not writing this out of frustration, just it is kind of funny when ppl think like this.